I recently came across a similar post, and while the advice was great, it mostly involved “makeup, skirts, heels, dresses,” which are more suited for going out. At home, I’m comfortable in my pajamas or casual day clothes and won’t wear heels or dresses. I still want to feel and look feminine, though. Aside from makeup (which I don’t wear), what else can I do?
When you think of girly things, what brings you joy and delight?
For me, I absolutely love retro dresses. I don’t go all out with elaborate hairstyles or heels, but my entire summer wardrobe consists of different fabrics in the same 50s-inspired style. I also wear pearl earrings almost 24/7 and have a few posters of retro-styled women looking pretty in that classic way.
What delights you? Is it sparkles and glitter? Maybe treat yourself to a glittery manicure once a month and add some sparkle to your shoes and clothes.
Do you love pink? Consider making one room in your house ultra-pink and gradually incorporating more pink into your wardrobe.
Find what truly delights your soul and embrace it. For you, it might be exploring different girly styles rather than sticking to one signature look. This can take more time and energy, but especially if you’re still young, you probably have the enthusiasm to make it happen.
I live in a very liberal city that celebrates individuality, so there’s a lot of public acceptance for people expressing themselves however they choose. However, in other cities or states, this might be more challenging.
Get your nails and toes done, wear your favorite jewelry, follow a skincare routine, keep your eyebrows neatly waxed, shave if that’s your preference, go for facials, and try some lip gloss.
Always have cute pajamas. I also wear “house lipstick” 
—a shade I bought but don’t love, so I wear it around the house 
. And don’t forget to moisturize!
Hi! I’m not sure if anyone has mentioned this yet, but if you have any jewelry—no matter the type—go through it, clean it up, and wear it at home! The same goes for perfume—put some on!
It’s such a great pick-me-up after a spa day. I don’t work in a traditional office environment, so I’d end up losing or damaging my rings and bracelets if I wore them during the day. But after work, as soon as I shower, I do as much “girly stuff” as I can, depending on how tired I am, of course!
I always put on a ring or two or a few bangles. After dinner, I enjoy some tea and a light snack. All of this helps me transition from work mode to relaxation mode and really allows me to enjoy my evening.
The idea of cute pajamas or lounge sets from another commenter is also fantastic!
Cute, cozy slippers for the fall and winter!
If you’re into cooking or gardening and it suits your style, a cute apron can be a great addition. I know it’s often associated with a traditional housewife image, but I sometimes like to toss on a cute apron for a big cleaning day on the weekend or during baking/meal prep evenings. It really puts me in the right mood.
A super pretty robe, housecoat, or kimono. Whether it’s lace, satin, or even fluffy, as long as it’s pretty, it makes me feel extra feminine and elegant at home.
A kimono sounds like fun. Any suggestions on where I can get one?
Definitely matching loungewear sets and simple jewelry to add a touch of sparkle! I always wear gold huggies in my first piercing, diamond studs gifted by my boyfriend in my second, and a clear topaz simple pendant necklace from Mejuri.
That sounds so elegant! Thanks 
Wearing satin sleepwear makes me feel really feminine. I love it and have collected a lot of it.
Just embrace being a woman.
You know, if I had the ability to interface with you like androids do, you’d probably understand what I mean and why I ask. Everyone has their own way of ‘being a woman,’ and that’s perfectly okay. You might think wearing a T-shirt and jeans is just as feminine as wearing a dress and makeup, but that doesn’t apply to me, and that’s fine. As someone in the replies mentioned, you should focus on what makes you happy. Happiness doesn’t take a single form, right? Everyone has their own unique way of being happy, and that’s what my happiness looks like. It’s refreshing to see someone who doesn’t agree, lol.